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My Interview with Perla
by Slash & Perla Hudson on Tuesday, February 1, 2011 at 4:46am
You are married to one of the world's most recognisable Guitar players, the top hatted one & Guitar hero Slash! Tell us what that is like?
Whats it like being married to your husband? It's the same as being married to Slash in that respect as he is my husband (and yes its not normal to most, but it is my normal.) the catch is, I have to share him with the world and this can get taxing sometimes for me.
Do you enjoy going on tour with Slash & your boys?
I enjoy Anytime as a family together. Traveling can get hard sometimes as we can go from airport to venue to hotel to airport all within 24 hours. But Im not complaining. I love my family and I go to great extremes to keep us all together! We have to coordinate days off from school and the kids are really good at doing their homework on the road. Ok, so sometimes we have to make them but they are pretty good about it. As you all know, going through the airport with kids can be a pain (if you haven't done it yourself im sure you've seen families at the airport!) My kids are amazing! Cash is in charge of everyones shoes, and London is in charge of putting out trays for everyone and Foxy (our dog) when she travels with us. Slash is always off getting patted down as he cant go through metal detectors because of the device implanted in his heart. So Im on my own. Sometimes my cousin, or Slashs security or when Im lucky the nanny is with us but not always! They are really good boys at airports, restaurants, shows, basically anything adult oriented. Its regular kids stuff that they go crazy at. You should hear them running around this house right now! Hey, heres London, complaining about having to practice his guitar....
While touring which do you prefer, to fly or travel on the tour bus?
I love being in Europe and going to sleep on the bus and waking up in a whole new country! It always feels like such an adventure! Really, I don't mind how we get there. I do like having a few hours off to relax and check out the sights a bit so I don't really care how we get there!
What are the most beautiful places you have been to while on tour?
Australia & Spain are beautiful! I really enjoyed Japan! The shopping is amazing in Tokyo and the Disneyland is so organized, clean and high tech, it makes ours look like Disney ghetto. And partying in Ropongi I must say is some of the best partying ive ever done in the world!
You have two beautiful boys with Slash. London who is 8 & Cash whom is 6, do you have any plans to have any more children?
Never say never, but as of today, I am certainly not planning on it.
Pregnancy was really hard on you both times, tell me about that?
Where to start?? Before London, lets say I didn't live the healthiest lifestyle therefore I thought being pregnant gave me a license to EAT! I also bled, I was what they call a "placenta previa" so I was on bed rest the whole time. It was very scary. I didn't have healthy eating habits, Mcdonalds was my favorite breakfast...nasty!! And I couldn't exercise at all, or get out of bed, so I gained 100 pounds. And he was breach so I had a c-section. Which I am now convinced that you heal faster and better after a vaginal birth. So after I had London I weighed 236 pounds. Disgusting!!!!! I also have a back injury I had as a child that really acted up when I gained all the weight so it was really tough. Breast feeding was a bitch as my nipples got so bloody huge! And London couldn't breast feed, poor little guy. It got to a point where I went to a lactation specialist and she had me hang a little bag of breastmilk off my neck on my back with little tubes coming to each of my nipples for the little guy to suck on. I was so sad I couldn't do it, but I tried it all! At the end of the day he had breast milk till 10 months, don't ask me how I did it! As for Cash, I was 10 pounds from being back to my normal weight and BOOM, I got pregnant again! Back to back pregnancies are tough. They are a little over a year apart. So here I went again all hormonal fat and coo koo. This time I gained 80 but this pregnancy was harder emotionally as Slash was on the road with Velvet Revolver and I went through most of it on my own. Even when we had Cash, Slash had to leave me in the hospital to fly off to a gig. Very hard. I was on my own with a newborn and another little guy still in diapers. Yes I had help but its not the same. I just wanted my husbands support. Cash was breach as well so I had another csection. Since having babies Ive had 3 hernias and my abdominal walls are completely messed up. Ive repaired the 3 hernias and had a tummy tuck, for asthetic reasons as well as my health! All the tares in my walls were not good. And my boobs...holy shit! I went from a D to an H. Yes, count it out...D E F G H!!!!!! Talk about huge! Ive since then had a reduction and a lift...thank god! I felt like I belonged on the cover of National Geographic Magazine...
I know that your an animal lover as is Slash, how many pets do you guys have now?
I try to keep it to a minimum since we are always traveling. And im not having pets (or kids for that matter) for other people to take care of them. But as it stands we have a crazy Bengal cat named Kitty-sue (I swear she thinks she is Slashs mistress) An anaconda named Sam, he lives in the gym but is getting a little too big to care for at home. My poor cousin Yohama had to feed him the other day. Kill a rat and the fucker wasn't hungry! We also have a goldfish Cash won at a fair almost 2 years ago. The damn thing is the size of a carp and on its 4th tank! Her name is Kim and she lives with 2 little bottom dwellers that eat her poop. And then there is my best friend Foxy Brown. She is a 9 year old Pomeranian that I swear is part human.
Slash is a known snake lover, do you like snakes?
I do now. Ive learned to appreciate them since being with Slash, but I wouldn't run out and get one.
What are the hardest & most awesome things about being married to such a big Rockstar?
TIME!!!!! He is so constantly busy, as am I. Its different then being busy at an office. Not only are we both in an office but We are also traveling constantly (sometimes for months at a time), promoting things constantly, (He is always doing an interview etc)?After he gives so much to his fans at shows, gives to interviews. Has business meetings, does charity work, etc. there is not much left for us, (London, Cash and me) Its very hard because he gives everyone a little piece of himself. ( And he does it whole heartedly!!!) But I wouldn't trade my life for anyones! I love him and appreciate him so much. And I feel that we are very fortunate to live the lifestyle we do.
n Slash's book he talks about when you were arrested for violating probation & had to spend some time in jail, what was that like & were you scared?
I was more pissed off than anything. Yes I was a bit scared but after a few days, I was friends with everyone. You know, it was a situation that was out of control so there was nothing I could do other than just go with it.I got along with everyone,Blacks, Hispanics, americans, everyone. I was fortunate that I looked white, spoke Spanish and had a bigger attitude than some of the black girls there.Im very personable and I make the most of every situation. I did anything to entertain myself. Jail is VERY boring! I learned to thread facial hair (no tweezers in jail so we pulled the thread from the blankets and used it to pull the hairs out) There is no makeup in county jail but we made makeup out of "skittles" candy and mascara out of coffee! even had fashion shows I created where we all used our sheets to make different outfits late night. I played cards with the girls (they taught me how to play spades there) I even got a job there to pass the time.
Have you got a favourite saying or life Motto?
"Well behaved women rarely make history."
You seem to be such a strong & confident woman, have you got any hints or tips for women out there?
Bitch! Believe in yourself because if you don't know one else will! Always try to be your best that way even if you didn't succeed at something, are skinny enough, etc. you know you have done all you could. BE HAPPY! The big boom can happen tomorrow and how would you want your last day to be? And always recognize the things that are out of your control. You can not change people, situations and things. You can only control yourself and what you ALLOW in your life. And give with your heart...
What does Perla Hudson do for fun & how do you love to relax?
I love to hang out with my friends and family. A perfect relaxing day for me is waking up with my family having breakfast together, hanging out by the pool and cooking. I LOVE those days at home. Those are usually my Sundays. Its not a secret Slash and I almost split up last year and It made me realize who our true friends are and whos just here because of who Slash is and what we have. Needless to say my guest list for Sundays has been minimized...
I also love to dance and drink champagne! I am a beach/boat person so put me near the water and I am at my happiest.
Every time I see photo's of you at a special event, you always look smashing, do you have a favourite designer?
I don't really have a favorite! I like unique sexy looks! And it doesn't have to be designer. I mix up dolce and gabana and target! Its what makes me feel pretty, sexy and confident!
You have recently lost a lot weight, congratulations! It's such a hard thing to do! You obviously work out, do you prefer the gym or outside training?
Thank you Mamma!! But, Gurl....... I do it all!!!! I workout at a gym and at home (we have a small gym) I like to get out and run, climb, hike. I have a very short attention span and get bored easily so I change it up constantly. I can NOT just run on a treadmill. I like to do stairs, weights, pilates, play ball with my boys, anything to keep me moving. I prefer whatever keeps me guessing whether it be a gym or outside.
Any big plans or New year resolutions made for 2011?
To not smoke! (I haven't had a ciggy since October 31st!) To finish unpacking and decorating our home (we moved in 1 1/2 years ago) Spend more time with my kids
So now I have some questions from some fans for you:
Who is your favourite band at the moment other than Slash?
Some of you will kill me when I say this! Im into electro house music! I love David Guetta and Swedish house mafia... As for new Rock, I like kings of Leon. I am always a rolling stones fan at heart
What is your favourite country?
Spain! And Cuba although the situation for my people there saddens me a bit. I haven't visited South America but Im going there in March so we will see..
How tall are you?
The truth... 5 foot 6 (im not that tall)
How did you handle those hurricane personalities in your marriage? Was it difficult to grow up as a couple & leave the crazy youth behind? I mean, at some stage in our lives we need to take responsibilities & blablabla. Did you manage to do that & have you got any advice?
We are not perfect and we are both still immature. We have grown to respect each other and appreciate what we have together. Getting off drugs was the best thing that happened to us. My advice is if you want something you got to work at it. Nothing is easy. And you must respect and love your partner. Once you Commit, COMMIT! Expecially with children. It is not a game. Recognize what you have and make it grow.
Is there anybody you have been starstruck with that you have met along your journey through life & if so who & what did you do?
Tina Turner! I think she is a hell of a lady! First time my path crossed her I was in Paris talking on my cell in the hallway (this was way before Slash) Someone came out of her room and told me to keep it down. I had no idea who it was so I called the front desk. Back then they would tell you who was in a hotel and they said Tina Turner! I sent her 5 dozen white roses and a note that said I apologized for being loud and she was an inspiration to me. She sent me tix to her show that night. Sadly I couldn't go cause I had to travel. The second time I saw her she was sitting next to me on the plane last year when I was coming back from Ibiza and Slash had filed for divorce before I came back to America from my holiday. I went in the bathroom and cried because she was there and to me it was a sign to be strong like her.
Do you have a wish or a dream that you haven't done as yet?
I wish to one day to work because we love it, not work because we have to. (Trust me the more you have, the more the responsibility)
My dream is to see my children grow up into men.
Do you speak Spanish to London & Cash & do you try to give them the Latino Culture?
I missed the boat when they were little because I didn't speak much Spanish to them and their nannies were from Europe. But now I do. London understands a lot. The little bugger just wont speak it. But now they get to earn rewards if they practice their Spanish. We are always listening to Spanish music and lots of dancing and Cuban food!
Do you have an Idol you would like to meet & if so who would that be?
Shes dead. But if I could it would be Jackie Kennedy and Id ask her how did she do it all!
Do London & Cash have a personalities similar to Slash?
Cash is very much like his father, homebody, introverted, very in his own world. Artisitic, imaginative and talented musically. Although he looks like me. And London looks more like his dad but is all Ferrer when it comes to personality! Outgoing, talkative, Mr Know it all! And mature beyond his years
Where do you buy your clothes from (Jeans & Shirts) from? Do you have a favourite store?
Like I said above, I don't care where its from as long as I like it. I do go to my local mall, Neiman Markus, Rodeo drive to target! But some of the best things I buy are when I travel. I like to go to local designers and local shops.
Did you ever think that you would ever marry a Rock Star?
I knew Slash was meant for me the first time I saw him. If he was a plummer Im sure id have the same feelings. It wasn't what he was, its who he is.
Where is the most romantic place that Slash has ever taken you to?
Anywhere by ourselves is romantic. From our bathtub to mexico!!
What do you like to do as a family for down time when Slash is home from touring?
Like I said above, just chilling out at home. Cooking, pool, playing kinect (im addicted!) Just being quiet at home with no one else other than our family is IT for us!!
Im so flattered people actually care about what I have to say and offer. Thank you all! I hope I can inspire you all as some have inspired me. Live big, dream big!!
Perla
- monkeychow
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Re: My Interview with Perla by Slash & Perla Hudson on Tuesday, February 1
yeah they said that a while back but i've noticed recent twitter and facebook updates about random trivial stuff seem to imply otherwise...i guess they'll always have some relations because of the kids but i've been wondering if they sorted it out or something...cos it seems all happy familes.
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Re: My Interview with Perla by Slash & Perla Hudson on Tuesday, February 1
It's great that Slash seems to have a happy stable home life with his wife and kids from all the craziness of his past.
I wish Axl had the same for himself, then I think we'd see and hear a lot more from him than we do.
